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That was a reason for her to stay home and not work because we wanted her to be there for our kid when he got home from school, but now he can take care of himself, that excuse goes out the window. I am getting to the end of my rope with her. I feel like Wife want hot sex Rock Hill marriage should be a team, and both people should be pulling on the same end of the rope together to achieve your financial goals, but I feel like I am a one man show with her.
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